Take a moment right now and think about a strong leader you know. Someone you truly enjoyed working for. Ask yourself a simple question about this leader. Do you trust her? I bet the answer is yes. Now think about a weak leader you know well. Someone you did not enjoy following. Ask yourself the same question. Do you trust him? Your answer probably changed to no. In fact, your answer may be hell no! It is difficult to follow someone you do not trust.
The three hard truths about your personal integrity
All The Way Leadership! believes that integrity is a non-negotiable attribute for leaders. Simply put – if you do not demonstrate integrity your team will not trust you, and you are dead in the water as a leader. In a previous post, I advised that you never forget these three hard truths about your integrity
A novel framework for new leaders
All The Way Leadership! created a novel framework for new leaders. Fundamentally this framework communicates that it is vital for you to possess integrated integrity as a new leader. Having individual integrated integrity means that ‘who you are’ aligns with ‘what you say’ and ‘what you do’. If you do not demonstrate individual integrated integrity your team will not trust you, and your impact as a leader will be limited.
A constant leadership challenge
Building trust is a constant leadership challenge that requires attention. Strong leaders invest their energy into building trust with their followers. They do it in small ways like starting and ending meetings on time. And in big ways like providing top cover for their team members when things go wrong. No one ever enjoys being thrown under the bus, especially by their leader. Don’t be that kind of leader.
Most people are willing to follow leaders they trust
After spending decades in leadership positions you start to notice certain patterns. One that is readily apparent is that most people are willing to follow leaders they trust. The follower may not completely agree with every decision the leader makes, but they are willing to give a trusted leader the benefit of the doubt in many situations. It makes common sense. Team members trust that their leader is making decisions for the good of the team, and are willing to follow.
The opposite trend is also true
Let’s look at the opposite scenario. All The Way Leadership! believes that most people are not willing to follow a leader they do not trust. Why would they? Once again it makes sense that most followers would be skeptical of any leader they do not trust. After all – what if the leader is not competent. He does not know what he is doing. Sure – a team may follow because they have to, but they certainly are not going to put in any extra effort. Instead, they are going to think about what to do when disaster strikes.
It is difficult to truly trust someone you don’t know
Another dimension of trust is familiarity. How well does your team know you? Do they know about your expertise as a leader? Your experience? Your strengths and weaknesses? It seems like a lot for them to know. The reason to raise this point is that it is difficult to truly trust someone who you don’t really know. Think about it in your own life. How many people do you trust that you don’t really know? I bet the number is low.
Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.
William Shakespeare, All’s Well that Ends Well
Context counts when it comes to trust
Sure – there are people you will trust without knowing them. In some cases, you never get the chance to learn about someone before you have to trust them. For example, you will trust the airline pilot on your next flight. You trust that she is competent at flying the plane and getting you to your destination safely. No – you will not have an opportunity to interview the pilot before your flight takes off. That situation is different than what is being described here. Your team will get the opportunity to evaluate you as the leader. They will decide whether or not to trust you.
How will others get to know you?
It is important that your team members get a chance to know you. No – they do not need to know the intimate details of your life. That would be strange. Rather they need to understand who you are. Your personality, your leadership style, and your pet peeves at a minimum. Each of us is different with a unique set of skills and experiences. Spend time with your team so that you can gain their trust. Remember trust is not a one-time transaction. Strong leaders understand the importance of building trust with their followers over time. Weak leaders ignore their team members and pay the price. Don’t fall into this trap. It is hard to fix later.
What about you?
Are you building trust with your followers? Do you spend time with them so that they get a chance to know who you are? More importantly, do you know who you are…really? If not, then you have work to do. Don’t worry – All The Way Leadership! is here. The next blog post will focus on a commonly known tool to help you better understand your personality. After all – how can others get to know who you are if you are not sure of yourself.
ATW! is designed to make you a better leader
I hope you join me on this journey to raise up the next generation of leaders. The world is in desperate need of more great leaders. Women and men who lead with confidence, clarity, and creativity. It’s time to become the leader that your world needs. Let’s go All The Way!